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Why Women Cheat

August 13th, 2008

Years ago a woman cheating on her spouse was unheard of but in modern times the number of women who cheat on their spouse is growing exponentially. The differences in men and women cheating is that men often cheat for physical reasons while women often have emotional reasons for cheating on their partner. […]

Why Men Cheat

August 11th, 2008

The reasons why men cheat in a relationship are often different than the reasons why women cheat. A mans reason for cheating can encompass a wide variety of reasons including genetics, a sense of challenge, self esteem and a lack of interest in their current relationship. While none are justifiable all of these […]

Why do men and women have a hard time communicating within a marriage?

August 8th, 2008

The number one cause of marital strife is lack of communication. The most common phrase to be said by couples that are having trouble is: We’re just not communicating, which then leads to: Can our marriage be salvaged? It is truly amazing that a relationship could be torn apart simply as a result […]

Why Communication Breaks Down

August 6th, 2008

One of the most crucial elements in any relationship is communication and when communication breaks down its imperative that you find out the cause of the breakdown so that you can try to fix the problem before it destroys the relationship. Communication can break down in a relationship for a variety of reasons including […]

What to do if you are not in the mood to make love to your husband

August 3rd, 2008

Great lovemaking between two people that truly care about each other can definitely make life’s frustrations a little bit easier, not to mention bring you both closer mentally and physically. With a little planning and some imagination, passion can actually grow throughout your marriage, as opposed to dwindling, like what happens to many married […]

Whats Up With Relationship Coaches?

July 31st, 2008

A relationship coach is an expert who literally becomes a part of your relationship for a short time and during that time they evaluate your relationship, act as a visionary in helping you to realize the potential of your relationship and offer tips and guidelines for achieving this potential. A relationship coach often has […]

Weekend Romantic Adventure Ideas

July 28th, 2008

Sometimes a weekend getaway is just what a couple needs to reestablish their relationship and make a new connection. Making this weekend getaway a romantic adventure can further enhance the benefits of the getaway. Engaging in adventurous activity can have the affect of drawing the couple closer together. Try finding an activity […]

Traditional marriages vs. equal marriages: What is the difference?

July 26th, 2008

There is little doubt that you have heard the term traditional marriage usually spoken by your parents or their friends. While a traditional marriage may mean something different to each person, the general sense of the term is when one party usually works to support the family (typically the man) and the other party […]

Tips for Making Small Talk

July 23rd, 2008

The ability to make small talk may come naturally to some and be difficult for others but it is a skill that can be obtained with a little bit of practice and confidence. The opportunity to make small talk presents itself on a daily basis in our lives. Anytime you are out and […]

Tips for Dating Someone With Children

July 21st, 2008

Dating can be complicated enough on its own but when there are children involved things can get even trickier. Many people shy away from starting a relationship with a partner who already has children and many singles with children are also apprehensive about starting a relationship. While dating a person with children can […]

The Role Of Romantic Play During The Beginning Of A Relationship

July 18th, 2008

Let’s talk about the beginning of a relationship, when you first felt that exciting attraction for someone. There is that wonderful euphoric feeling of falling for the other person. Using play is at the heart of every courtship, regardless of the approach. It is the approach that differs from person to person […]

The Difference Between Men & Women’s Insecurity

July 16th, 2008

In most cases, men typically assume that once a women is fulfilled and content with the relationship, she should stay that way. He thinks that once he has proven his love for her, then she should know it forever. She should feel secure with him, regardless of what happens, without ever needing to […]

Symbols Of Love: Never Stop Giving Them

July 14th, 2008

Love can be shown in many ways, but none are most important than little love symbols that can mean so much to your lady. A women needs to have symbols of love in her relationship. For example, when a man brings home flowers, they validate her beauty, femininity, and her love as being […]

Separating Love From Lust

July 11th, 2008

Merriam-Websters dictionary defines love as, strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties, and defines lust as, an intense longing. These two conflicting definitions help to separate love from lust. By definition alone the two differ in that, love is based on an affinity while lust is based solely on […]

Money, Sex & Children: How to Avoid Lifes Greatest Battles

July 9th, 2008

Some of lifes greatest battles are over issues such as money, sex and children. While these are issues that elicit passionate responses and feelings, it is possible to deal with these issues without arguing. In fact not only can you avoid battles over these issues, but these issues can also enhance your relationship. […]

Managing the Relationship Matrix

July 6th, 2008

In general a matrix is a table of data containing information in both rows and columns. Specifically a relationship matrix could be one that is used to determine your genealogical relationship to another. However in terms of relationships, the relationship matrix often refers to how compatible you and your partner are in respect […]

Ladies: Are You The Victim Of The Silent Partner?

July 4th, 2008

I never feel like I get enough of my husband David, his wife, Lynn told me. He always seems distant when we make love, as if he is removed, like he is holding back some deeper part of himself. He doesn’t really share his feelings with me and when we make love, I […]

Is your marriage burning out? 3 Ways in which you can take responsibility

July 1st, 2008

Has your marriage turned into a daily ritual of heated arguments, battling back and forth over silly arguments? These negative communication problems that happen between you and your partner can have a very bad effect on what happens inside of the relationship. Marriages like this are on a one-track road to total burnout, […]

Is Money Causing Stress In Your Marriage?

June 28th, 2008

Many couples find that finances are a prime source of friction. And, like most couples, you may never really discuss with one another the financial facts of your life. How do you feel about money? How does your spouse feel about money? What’s a financial necessity and what is a luxury? […]

Intimacy In Public: Can Being Naughty Be Good For Your Marriage?

June 25th, 2008

Couples who seem to have the most passionate and sexy of marriages tend to also have ways of keeping t heir sex lives in peak shape by doing the things that most other couples haven’t done in a very long time.
For example, I know of a couple who has been […]

How We Lose Attraction For The Ones We Love

June 23rd, 2008

Many people are scared to get involved in a relationship for fear that it will not work out. And some people enter a relationship with bringing with them the negativity and fear of losing that other person, which invariably causes strife, because constantly being scared of having it all disappear tends to attract that […]

How to Say No and Mean It

June 21st, 2008

It may be hard enough to say no to a request but really meaning it can be even harder. Many of us are already perpetual suckers who find themselves challenged to even considering answering no to a request. Those of us who are able to say no, at least initially, often end up […]

How to Read Romantic Body Language

June 19th, 2008

Being able to read body language can give your clues as to whether someone has a romantic interest in you or not. By accurately reading their body language you will be able to determine whether or not the other person is feeling comfortable around you and eager to get to know you better. […]

How to Give Compliments and Sound Sincere

June 16th, 2008

The key to giving compliments is sounding sincere so that the recipient of the compliment is truly flattered and appreciative of the compliment. An insincere compliment does not convey the same message. If you are giving the compliment for your own personal gain, your lack of sincerity will result in the person […]

How to get rid of the Mind-Reader approach to communication

June 13th, 2008

Have you ever been in a relationship where your significant other always assumes that you can read their mind? They seem to exclude giving any details about a situation and then get angry when you did not understand them. Although they do not realize it, many couples out there have what is called […]

How to Forgive AND Forget

June 11th, 2008

We have heard the saying many times that, Its easier to forgive than to forget, but the truth is that unless you are capable of forgetting you never really forgive. Forgiveness is the act of excusing someone for their offense but unless you are also willing to forget their transgression you arent truly forgiving […]

How to Fight Fairly

June 8th, 2008

In any relationship worth having conflict is bound to arise. The true test of the relationship is whether or not you feel that it is worthwhile to resolve these conflicts and if you are able to do so in a fair and objective way. Key elements to fighting fairly include sticking to the […]

How to Demand Respect AND Get It

June 6th, 2008

Respect, as it applies to people, is defined as a feeling of esteem for a person. This feeling is generally a result of a persons achievements. While all people deserve respect, it is an unfortunate fact that many people do not receive the respect that they deserve. There are several ways however […]

How Men React Internally When The Women Is Overwhelmed And Upset

June 4th, 2008

When a women is overwhelmed, a man tends to withdraw and detach from her to be free of the feelings of guilt and inadequacy that he feels in response to her. He has taken her unhappiness, overwhelm, and helplessness personally. He feels that he has failed her in some way, but he does […]

How Can Couples Who Are So Well-Matched End Up Unhappy?

June 1st, 2008

The answer is that there are lots of ways that people can be unhappy. Sometimes life throws the couple a huge challenge, and it can overwhelm their ability to cope. Sometimes one of the partners, or both, can have an individual problem that causes problems in the marriage, no matter how compatible they […]